BE GRATEFUL TO EVERYONE

May 10, 2010

Because everybody is creating a space for you to be transformed — even those who think they are obstructing you, even those whom you think are enemies. Your friends, your enemies, good people and bad people, favorable circumstances, unfavorable circumstances — all together they are creating the context in which you can be transformed and become a Buddha. Be grateful to all.

A man once came and spat on Buddha, on his face. Of course his disciples were enraged. His closest disciple, Ananda, said to him, “This is too much!” He was red-hot with anger. He said to Buddha, “Just give me permission so that I can show this man what he has done.”

Buddha wiped his face and said to the man, “Thank you, sir. You created a context in which I could see whether I can still be angry or not. And I am not, and I am tremendously happy. And also you created a context for Ananda: now he can see that he can still be angry. Many thanks, we are so grateful! Once in a while, please, you are invited to come. Whenever you have the urge to spit on somebody, you can come to us.”

It was such a shock to the man, he could not believe his ears, what was happening. He had come expecting that he would anger Buddha. He had failed. The whole night he could not sleep, he tossed and turned and could not sleep. Continuously the idea haunted him — his spitting on the Buddha, one of the most insulting things, and Buddha remaining as calm and quiet as he had been before, as if nothing had happened, wiping his face and saying to him, “Thank you, sir. And whenever you have this desire to spit on somebody, please come to us.”

He remembered it again and again. That face, that calm and quiet face, those compassionate eyes. And when he had said thank you, it had not been just a formality, he was really grateful. His whole being was saying that he was grateful, his whole atmosphere was grateful. Just as he could see that Ananda was red-hot with anger, Buddha was so cool, so loving, so compassionate. He could not forgive himself now, what had he done? Spitting on that man — a man like Buddha!

Early the next morning he rushed back, fell down at the feet of Buddha, and said, “Forgive me, sir. I could not sleep the whole night.” Buddha said, “Forget all about it. There is no need to ask forgiveness for something which has already passed. So much water has gone down the Ganges.” Buddha was sitting on the bank of the Ganges under a tree. He showed the man, “Look, each moment so much water is flowing down! Twenty-four hours have passed — why are you carrying it, something which is no longer existential? Forget all about it.” And I cannot forgive you, because in the first place I was not angry with you. If I had been angry, I could have forgiven you. If you really need forgiveness, ask Ananda. Fall at his feet — he will enjoy it!”

Be grateful to everyone. To those who have helped, to those who have hindered, to those who have been indifferent. Be grateful to all, because all together they are creating the context in which Buddhas are born, in which you can become a Buddha. ~ Osho

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7 Responses to “BE GRATEFUL TO EVERYONE”

  1. Christa Says:

    Hi Trish. It’s so true – we always have something to learn from everyone.

    • Trish Scott Says:

      Hi Christa,

      From everyone AND every situation as you have proved so abundantly since you lost everything in a fire! You amaze me. I’m sure you are an inspiration to everyone who comes into contact with you. Thanks for dropping by my place 🙂

      • Christa Says:

        Trish! that is so kind of you to say. I feel like that incident taught me so much and I’d love to pass on what I’ve learned to others.

  2. Ivan Olarte Says:

    Not only am I grateful but also humbled by those around me. Take my “brother” Joe for instance…. you can read my story here…. http://ivanolarte.com/2010/05/10/positive-karma-in-action/

  3. Ivan Olarte Says:

    Hi Trish,

    Speaking of grateful boy am I ever!

    You see as my story develops it turns out that in trying to help others it has helped me the most as I finally let my wonderful niece Cynthia into my life.

    Life is SO good if we only let it be and are awake enough to realize it.

    Namaste
    Ivan


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